I understand this feeling.  Debra Strickland, a 9/11 widow said "His death left an “empty space” that the past 10 years have not filled."  That is a real love story!  Debra shared that, their marriage, their love, was based on friendship, compatibility, and a shared love of the Army.  This is another story of survival , that really defines what surviving the loss of someone is all about.  She nails it.  See if you agree?  What is it like to really lose someone?  Read on...