If you're wondering what Selena Gomez is up to since Justin Bieber got arrested, she's not bothering trying to talk to him. Instead, she's reaching out to others in Bieber's inner circle, including his mom, Pattie Mallette, and his onetime best friend and swagger coach, Ryan Good.

“She has not spoken to Justin yet but has been in touch with his mom, who is also worried sick about her son,” a source told Hollywood Life. “They are all hoping this is a wake-up call. Selena is just beyond thankful that no one was hurt.”

Gomez has also been in touch with Good, who she hopes will be a good influence on Biebs. "Selena is hoping that Ryan will reach out to Justin,” the source says. “He’s always been a positive influence on Justin and if anyone could talk some sense into Justin, it would be Ryan.”

Part of why Gomez hasn't reached out to Bieber may be because his team thinks she's a poor influence on him, even though for ages Gomez was credited with keeping him on the straight and narrow. In fact, Bieber's team has told him to leave Gomez alone. “The message has been sent,” a source close to Bieber told Radar Online. “There is always so much -- ridiculous -- drama involving both of them. They fight constantly and Selena loves to keep Justin hanging. He always acts out after they fight," the source added. "Selena is just not good for Justin. They need to stay away from each other.”

The insider revealed, “Justin also does really stupid stuff to try and impress Selena. Frustratingly for his advisors, he gets so much negative press, but Selena never does. If Justin were to cut off all communication with Selena, he would be in a much better place.”

Said another insider, “Most of Justin’s team think she has generally positive influence on him because she has her act together… (but) he does act out a lot more often than (not) when he deals with her.”

If that's the case, here's hoping Jelena is over for good -- if only for the sake of Bieber's health!